Assalamualaikum and hiii
Earthians
Almost half of the year I do not updating
any posts here… And during that times, so many things had happened and changed,
this and that. But, there is one thing that stay still, shafika is still a sassy
girl.Too many things to catch up but yea I’ll
just update the things that I feel like to share with you guys !
Well, up till this month, it’s almost been 2
months ever since I entered new semester, sem 5 out of 10, by that im currently
a third a year shariah and laws student. Budak yang dulu nya tak berapa nak
redha dan suka belajar dekat sini dah masuk tahun tiga guys. You know, to be
here ( third year) I ve been through a lot. A LOT. Mentally and emotionally
pressured!
Kita rojak Bahasa ye? acah je speaking atas tu *HEHEHEHE*
During my third and fourth sem, I have to
deals with mental endurance. Masa sem 3 nak masuk sem 4 la nak kenal who is
your friend, your real friend and your frienemies. Kawan talang dua muka tu biasa lah dekat uni.
Wajib ada kan. Masa ni I was like, oh begini mereka ni oh macam ni ke dia ni
sebenarnya baru kenal. But im okay, im fine. Nothing hurted me back then. Deal
dengan manusia is easy for me. Super easy, because I don’t give a damn pun
diorang ni macam mana asalkan tak ganggu the flow of my life.
Masa sem 4, everything just nice for me even
I got an intense cold war with this one buddy but, I like it and really love
fourth sem. I enjoyed this whole semester 4 so much! Since I already knew the
personalities of my classmates and lecture mates, so I could mingle with them
really well. I know how to handle them since I can read them easily. Aku
bertambah seronok and enjoy sem 4 sbb semua subjek aku suka, by this I meant
subjects law semua best2 , contract 2, constitutional law 2, Family law for non
Muslim. Oh, satu je yang kurang gemar, Law of Torts 2 heheheh. Entahla subjek
ni aku takboleh score A, I don’t know how make this subject easier to learn.
Internal problem, perhaps. Kalau subject course shariah aku lemah sikit, so I
just managed to get B minus. But alhamdulillah at least bukan C right? *ayat
sedapkan hati sendiri*
Okay lets move forward.
I like myself for who im. But for this semester, I felt something
different. From the start I felt worry, kind of I do not believe in myself.
Inferior. Not good. My confident level is very low like at the bottom of its
level. Sememangnya sebelum ini aku kurang confident especially around the
crowd, but this is totally different. Even with a single entity pun, aku rasa
takde confident. HELP MEEEE L.
How to cope with this matter?
Then, I got problem with my emotions. It is really hard to
supress my emotion like I did before. Before this (sem1 till 3), I still manage
to control my feelings and emotions like i wont allow it outta control. To stay
cool and cheerful is what I want. WHY? Obviously because I do not want people
to read me, I hate when they know my true feelings. I don’t like when they know
im mad, it is simply because im afraid that they would feel uncomfortable
around me. Yes, because that matter to me, i just want them to feel okay and
comfortable around me and to know what I
feel is an absolute NO.
However, I think I ve lost. I failed. Im sad im mad and I
couldnt control it. These things happened perhaps because i afraid of this
semester. Takde study week. Semua subjects core and agak susah. Friends? Of
course at times they are quite insensitive, not too understanding and I don’t
know la. Mungkin I je yang terlampau sensitive. Atau aku dah penat berlakon?
Hipokrit kan aku sbb i want to know them, read their moves and stuffs, but I
hide mine. Emotion, real thoughts and personality. Aku rasa aku takde
personality la hahahaha. But on the other side, I don’t think im faking myself
because be ‘that’ way is also part of me. The motive is that I just want to
make things easier for myself but, at the end of the day I’ll feel super tired
of taking care everyone’s heart when they don’t even care mine. But..but, after
undergone those helpless negative feelings I’ll to neutralise it back by keep
saying to myself that ‘this will end up very soon, please stay clam shafika, be
good to everyone it’s okay just for another 3 years and you’ll be absolutely
okay”.
When
enduring with this kind of emotions or pressured situations, I’ll make some
gaps with my friends. NO, not because they are at fault or what, but taking
some times and make some spaces is to make myself more calm and I would not let
my anger to others, macam marahkan nyamuk and bakar kelambu. I’ll try to avoid
doing that because I really really really hate when people do that to me. So,
after 3 days or a week, I’ll awkwardly back to my annoyingly cheerful state.
Masa ni, I am hundred percent okay J
Okay… it
seems like I dah banyak melalut hahahahaha tapi kira aku dah luahkan perasaan
and I feel much better right now. Ah…. A massive thank you to blogspot sebab
mewujudkan medium ni to express what I feel and to those yang baca im so sorry
if you feel annoyed with me but that’s your right so it’s okay. So, adios peeps
!
